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Be better than your bias — 5 areas of your life to examine

An award-winning diversity consultant and international corporate speaker, Risha Grant, has a mission to help us all be better than our BS — that’s our “biasphere”— the powerful and often invisible belief systems that we’ve been steeped in since birth and the judgment and bias we carry with us that impact our lives and the many others we encounter every day.

 

 

Analyzing your biasphere and identifying your BS raises your unconscious bias to the conscious level,” says Grant.

 

 

“If you don’t like what you discover, don’t blame or judge yourself, not because bias isn’t problematic, but because getting caught up in your feelings is a distraction. What matters is what you’re going to do about it, because once you can see your BS, you’re also quickly going to see that it’s been running your life for a long time and warping your ability to gauge reality.”

 

 

5 socializing agents that form the rings of our biasphere:

  • Family
  • Peers and friends
  • Schools or government
  • Religion
  • Mass media

 

Using stories from her personal and professional journey as well those of her clients, Grant encourages you to first examine the roots of your own BS through a process of radically accepting yourself and then to build a BS-free culture, which can only happen when you learn to radically accept others. She also shares the exercises, tools, and strategies she has taught thousands of people at all levels to make their workplaces more accepting, inclusive, and productive

 

 

About Risha Grant

Risha Grant is diversity personified: CEO. Entrepreneur. Black. Female. Small-town born and raised. Bisexual. Spiritual. Ex-preacher’s wife. Cusser. Left-handed. Former Division 1 athlete. But these traits alone aren’t what make her one of the most powerful and effective diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) experts in the US. Hailed as a “cultural competency genius” and renowned for her storytelling chops, humor, and frank delivery, she has made a career of leading her audiences as well as executives and their teams, politicians, civic leaders, and academic directors around the world to Radical Acceptance (RA) through a unique bias-busting process of self-examination and concrete advice on how to behave, lead, and manage businesses more inclusively.

 

 

In her role as a speaker and CEO of a multi-million dollar business, Grant has shifted the hearts and minds of her audiences and clients from around the world, including Google, Levi Strauss, Nestle Purina, Xerox, YouTube, Procter & Gamble, Discover Card Financial Services, Samsung Electronics America, Cox Communications, U.S. Airforce, U.S. Navy, Intuit, NBA’s Oklahoma City Thunder, and Harvard University.

 

She’s been featured in various national and international media including Forbes, Entrepreneur Magazine, Harvard Business Review, HR News, The Financial Times, Glamour Magazine UK, Bloomberg Media, and Black Enterprise, among others. She is also the author of two books: That’s BS! How Bias Synapse Disrupts Inclusive Cultures and the Power to Attract Diverse Markets and Be Better Than Your BS: How Radical Acceptance Empowers Authenticity and Creates a Culture of Inclusion.

 

Grant has received numerous honors such as being named one of the Top 10 Most Powerful Women Leaders in HR, one of the 40 Top Women Keynote Speakers, and made the list of Top 100 HR Experts. She was named as 1 in 9 Speakers Turning Crisis into Opportunity by Entrepreneur magazine, and for three consecutive years been an Engagedly Top 100 HR Influencer and Entrepreneur of the Year.

 

Grant will freely admit that she is a work in progress. She occasionally misuses pronouns. She prejudges others. Sometimes she walks in fear. Yet she has consistently striven to focus on love, and made it her mission to use her passion, persistence, knowledge, and experience to dismantle racism, sexism, classism, and plain old stupidism—including her own. She lives in Tulsa, Okla. with her partner, where when not teaching people how to challenge bias she is busy being the world’s best auntie.

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Mercer County Clerk continues to issue warnings to passport applicants

TRENTON — Mercer County Clerk Paula Sollami Covello is again issuing warnings to constituents in order to prevent them from wasting their precious time and money.

Residents should know the following:

Passport fees are required at all passport facilities

The U.S. Department of State advises all passport applicants that there are no free passports, nor fee waivers. Instead, it is true that a fee is required for all passport applications.

Payment is required at all Passport Acceptance Facilities, including the Mercer County Connection in Hamilton Township, and the Mercer County Clerk’s Office in Trenton.

There are recent social media videos circulating on the internet, which advise customers that passports can be free by submitting form I-912, but these are false, misleading and incorrect.

The form they are referring to is for U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS), and not for Passport Services. The form is NOT a Department of State form and it is not honored by them.

Mercer County Clerk Paula Sollami Covello explained that videos on social media platforms such as TikTok and Instagram, are not being produced by government officials, and have created confusion among constituents who believe they (the videos) are accurate.

For further information on the Form I-192 and the individuals eligible, please visit https://www.uscis.gov/i-192 for clear instructions and additional information.

It is recommended for those who are planning international travel to begin submitting their paperwork well in advance of any travel dates, to allow for any unforeseen delays. The current wait times for passport services are 7-9 weeks for expedited services and up to 14 weeks from the time of submission for a regular application. Please note, these times are estimates; if the workload is significantly heavy or light, that number can change.

For detailed information on documentation required for a passport, or office hours at the Mercer County Clerk’s Office, please visit https://www.mercercounty.org/government/county-clerk-/office-services/passportsand for detailed information on services at the Mercer County Connection in Hamilton, please visit https://www.mercercounty.org/departments/county-connection/passport-application-information

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Innovative educator makes ‘Forbes 50 Over 50’ list as star helping teachers and raising millions

Lacey Robinson, President and Chief Executive Officer of UnboundEd, has been recognized by Forbes 50 Over 50 list for IMPACT:

 

•       Lacey Robinson serves as the CEO and President of UnboundEd, a professional development solution for educators. When the coronavirus pandemic hit in 2020, Robinson led a pivot from an in-person model to a fully virtual one, scaling its reach from a few thousand to tens of thousands of educators looking to prioritize equity in the classroom.

•       At the same time, she led the organization’s merger with Pivot Learning and CORE Learning—a move that solidified UnboundEd as the leading national K-12 equity-focused educator development organization.

•       When she began leading the organization in 2020, UnboundEd recorded $14.3 million in revenue. In two years’ time, she’d grown it to $35 million.

•       Funders include the Gates Foundation, Bloomberg Philanthropies, Carnegie Corporation of New York, the Schusterman Family Foundation, the Hewlett Foundation and the MacKenzie Scott Foundation.

•       Robinson has spent time in and around the classroom for her entire career, having worked as a teacher, a principal and a school staff development specialist.

 

“All students deserve a learning environment that is grade-level, engaging, affirming, and meaningful. All students flourish when their education not only acknowledges their identities but the identities of others, affirming who they are as academics and as human beings,” says Robinson.

 

“Adopting this mindset begins our journey toward justice as educators. My life’s work aims to help educators in school systems disrupt systemic racism and all of its legacies in classrooms. I work with our collective educator community to ensure that future generations can stand free within themselves to be whomever they choose to be. I choose to be a truth-teller. I choose to own my story of internalized racism that I had to overcome and to stare at the hard truth about my toolkits of pedagogical practices and concepts to be the educator I am now. I choose not to look away.”

 

In her new book, Justice Seekers: Pursuing Equity in the Details of Teaching and Learning, Robinson delivers an engaging combination of storytelling and research that explains why justice is happening―or not happening―inside the classroom and within the details of teaching and learning. An intuitive and exciting roadmap for K-12 teachers, teachers-in-training, school administrators, and principals who aim to reverse the racial injustices today’s children face every day, Justice Seekers belongs in the hands of everyone who cares about educational equity.

 

Lacey Robinson is the President and Chief Executive Officer of UnboundEd, a role that accelerates her life’s work to help educators in school systems disrupt bias and systemic racism and its legacies in classrooms. As President and Chief Executive Officer of UnboundEd, Robinson sets the organization’s vision for equity-driven national change. While continually monitoring the design, delivery, and quality of UnboundEd’s national K-12 educator professional learning programs,  Robinson concurrently maintains the nonprofit’s health, sustainability, and future-driven vision for what teaching and learning can be in the 21st century.

 

Robinson engaged with industry partners to support standards-aligned, content-focused, equity-driven adult professional learning and development from the organization’s infancy as its Chief of Program and Engagement. She also endorsed vital design and execution elements for UnboundEd’s signature professional learning opportunity, the illustrious Standards Institute. Robinson’s contributions led to the organization’s rapid growth and positioned UnboundEd as an industry leader. Robinson spearheaded migrating this work into a virtual space during the pandemic to meet the needs of educators. Ultimately, she believes the work of UnboundEd/CORE will be a catalyst of support for teachers and leaders in what she likes to coin as the Edusphere. Robinson focused on literacy, equity, and school leadership for over two decades as a teacher, principal, and staff development specialist. Inspired by Langston Hughes, her path is to build temples for tomorrow as strongly and bravely as she knows how and to ensure that future generations can stand freely within themselves to be whomever they choose.

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CIA operatives dodge danger, confront terrorist attacks in realistic race against time, ‘The Handler’

GREENWICH, Conn. —  In the real world, “espionage is not a tuxedo and a martini,” quipped prolific author Jeffrey S. Stephens, who has written extensively about missions involving CIA operatives and national security.

 

“They work in the shadows. They’re in danger,” he added. “There’s so much that goes on that we don’t know about — so many near misses that we can never hear about for obvious security reasons.”

 

His latest book, The Handler, pays homage to those who “work in the shadows” to protect the people of the United States with a chillingly realistic plot centered on the revival of Al Qaeda and its efforts to pull off a large act of terrorism.

 

The book features Nick Reagan, an abundantly confident CIA operative and American hero who will go to any length to protect the country he loves. And in The Handler, Reagan and his team travel to the ends of the earth to locate an anonymous terrorist determined to unleash a series of unholy attacks on America. Can their mission succeed when they don’t even know who they’re looking for?

 

Readers first meet Reagan as he traces a trail of clues to China in search of the Ghost Chip — a new technology that turns cell phones into detonators and renders them untraceable. In the hands of terrorists, the Ghost Chip would be catastrophic.

 

When the CIA uncovers details of a violent assault planned in New York City, Reagan and his partner, Carol Gellos, are assigned to prevent it — facing long odds and danger along the way.

 

As events unfold, it becomes apparent the incident in Manhattan was only the first in a series of intended terrorist strikes within the United States. Even worse, Reagan discovers that the man behind this onslaught is further along in his preparations than anyone in the intelligence community anticipated.

 

The anonymous ISIS handler behind these assaults is using new technology, as well as in-formation gathered from three American scientists kidnapped in Pakistan, to coordinate his plans. The result will be a gruesome fate for thousands of innocent people … unless Reagan can stop him.

 

After deciphering the code being used by the Handler to plot his bloody scheme, Reagan races against time, needing help as never before from his group of talented associates, including his lover, top CIA analyst Erin David.

 

Throughout The Handler, the author toggles between perspectives, giving readers a chilling look inside the minds of Islamic terrorists hellbent on carrying out heinous acts in the name of the Koran, while simultaneously, Reagan risks his life to thwart the awful carnage.

 

BestThrillers.com calls The Handler, “A taut terrorism thriller that mesmerizes with a dizzying global conspiracy and believable stakes,” and The Real Book Spy calls it, “Jason Bourne for the new millennium.”

 

About the Author
A native of New York City, Jeffrey S. Stephens is a successful attorney in private practice, admitted in both New York and Connecticut. Stephens has lived for more than 30 years in Greenwich, which is where he and his wife, Nancy, raised their two sons, Graham and Trevor. Stephens is the author of the Jordan Sandor thrillers, Targets Of Deception, Targets Of Opportunity, Targets Of Revenge and Rogue Mission, as well as the Anthony Walker murder mystery Crimes And Passion and the Pencraft First Place Award winning novel, Fool’s Errand.

 

For more information, please visit www.jeffreystephens.com, or follow the author on Facebook (Author Jeffrey Stephens), Instagram (jss50) and Twitter (@j_stephensbooks).

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Survey: 4 in 10 college students working in service industry this summer may delay returning to school

It’s commonplace for college students to stay busy over the summer by working or participating in internship programs. As student loan payments are set to resume in the fall, students may be feeling more pressure to earn money this summer, and fewer students may be willing and able to do unpaid internships programs. Due to the on-going labor shortage, typical student jobs in the service industry may also be more lucrative than ever.

 

To find out what students’ summer plans are, in June, Intelligent.com surveyed 749 current full-time undergraduate students.

 

 

Key findings:

  • 53% of college students are working this summer, 21% are doing an internship, and 7% are doing both
  • 21% of students working in service industry job are considering delaying going back to school due to earning potential
  • 65% of those considering return to school delay have federal student loans
  • Nearly half of students doing internships say it’s unpaid
  • 82% of students working/interning with federal student loans are worried about payments resuming

39% of college students working in service industry considering delaying going back to school given earning potential

 

More than half of college students say they are working this summer, and 34% of college students are working a service industry /customer service job.

 

While the plurality (43%) are earning $11-$15 per hour before tips, 30% are earning $16-$20, 5% $21-$25, and 5% are earning more than $25 an hour. Additionally, 36% say they are earning more than an additional $10 an hour in tips.

 

 

Due to how much money they can make, 39% of college students working a service industry job are ‘strongly considering’ (15%) or ‘somewhat considering’ (24%) delaying going back to school.

 

A potential reason for this is because 65% of these students say they have federal student loans, and 82% are ‘very worried’ (42%) or ‘somewhat worried’ (41%) about federal student loan payments resuming.

 

Overall, 51% of students who are working this summer have student loans and 80% are worried about payments resuming.

 

“College students have traditionally relied on summer jobs to help defray college expenses, but there are several compelling reasons why these jobs, even if they are not directly related to one’s intended career, are more important than ever,” says Professor of Strategic Communication at Ithaca College and Principal of Gayeski Analytics Diane Gayeski, Ph.D.

 

“Tuition, room and board are more expensive than ever, and few families can afford to pay the entire cost. Given the recent Supreme Court ruling that student loan payments will resume, the looming debt payments are more concerning than ever. Reducing the amount of borrowed money greatly impacts the total amount and length of debt, especially given rising interest rates.

 

“Graduates often find that it’s difficult to land a job if they’ve never had a job – even if they earned great grades and studied in an area where their skills are in demand. Employers want to see evidence that prospective workers have the discipline to stick to a job schedule and that they have developed good interpersonal work skills. Actually, having worked rather in challenging situations such as busy restaurants or fast-paced call centers provides the opportunity for students to be able to talk about the techniques they learned when it comes time to interview for jobs, and enables them to ask supervisors for letters of recommendation. Employers look for evidence of good customer service skills, teamwork, the ability to de-escalate tense situations, and the flexibility to learn new skills and take on unexpected responsibilities.

 

“Having a college degree no longer guarantees an immediate job, and especially in careers like theater, filmmaking, and music that are a series of ‘gigs’ rather than steady jobs, the ability to find other flexible types of employment is necessary for financial survival. Students who understand this build up their experience and network in retail or hospitality chains where they can easily find employment, even in other cities with the same company.”

 

1 in 7 college students have unpaid internships this summer

About one-fifth (21%) of college students are doing an internship this summer, and of this group nearly half (46%) say their internship is unpaid.

 

When asked why they chose to do an unpaid internship, respondents said:

  • “To get experience for my resume”
  • “There aren’t a lot of paid internships for my major and my field of interest. I can’t get a job without experience.”
  • “Because I could not get a paid internship.”
  • “I choose to do an unpaid internship for the experience and recommendations.”

 

Seven percent of students are both working and doing an internship this summer. Of students with unpaid internships who have federal student loans, 85% are worried about payments resuming. A similar percentage (82%) of students with paid internships feel the same.

 

The case for paid internships

Diane Gayeski, Ph.D., offers further insight on college internships.

 

“Internships are an important learning component for most college students, especially if they are not going straight on to graduate school. I always advise students to take as many internships as possible, even if they are very part-time and unpaid, because the most significant insights gained are about whether the student really likes working in a specific career or in a particular type of organization. Studying topics like journalism or hospitality management or art appraisal is much different than actually working in that field, and often students come to the conclusion that the work environment or hours are not a good match for them.  While having an unpaid internship may seem like it doesn’t make good financial sense, neither does paying for four years of college only to find out later that you don’t want to go into that field after all.

 

“Many college majors require internships, such as those in health sciences such as physical therapy or in elementary and secondary education, which require a certain number of practical experience hours in order to be certified to practice. But even in other fields, internships are often the only way for students to apply what they’ve learned in the classroom. For example, in the Live Event Design and Management minor at Ithaca College where I teach, students are required to take at least three credits of internship where they are directly involved in producing and executing major events, something that just can’t be replicated in a classroom. Because of the location of many colleges as well as the heavy schedule of classes, sports, and work that most students endure during the regular semesters, the summer is often the only opportunity for them to do an internship.

 

“Over the past few years, most companies have begun to pay their interns because they realize that this may be the only way to attract top talent, and because there’s been so much public outcry about the inequities of unpaid internships with for-profit companies. However, the pay often doesn’t match what a student can earn in wages and tips as a server or bartender, and sometimes students need to move away from home to be able to do an internship in their field which brings on added living expenses. In addition to this, many employers require that students are enrolled for college internship credits because this covers them for insurance and other legal matters – however, this adds even more financial burden because the students then must pay for those credits in the summer when scholarships often don’t cover that cost.

 

“When I served as Dean, I established a fund that would cover living expenses and credit enrollment for students who wanted to pursue a summer internship away from home but could not afford to do so. I recognized that this leveled the playing field for students from different economic backgrounds. In many industries, internships are about the only path to entry-level jobs because it’s a good way for employers and young graduates to ‘date’ and try out the relationship before committing to a full-time offer. Students who feel like they can’t afford to do an internship might pursue some of these options:

 

  1. Look for stipends and scholarships specifically for summer internships.
  2. Try to find a part-time internship and a part-time job so you can do both – such as working evenings as a server or bartender or weekends as a lifeguard while doing a 9-5 weekday internship.
  3. Find or propose a remote or hybrid internship (more common now after COVID) that allows you to do work on your own time. For instance, many of our students got remote internships doing social media or content writing with PR and advertising agencies where they could do the writing at any time, as long as they met certain deadlines. Often, these internships would then continue on through the regular semesters, sometimes as a part-time employee.
  4. If you can’t manage an internship, try to arrange for a significant volunteer gig or two. For example, business students might volunteer to help with financial record-keeping for a faith-based group with which they are affiliated. Elementary education students might volunteer in a local library doing some reading programs for kids on the weekends. Even volunteering to help raise money or usher at a local concert hall or theater or being a docent at a historical site can provide some great learning and networking opportunities in a compressed amount of time.”

Methodology

This online poll was commissioned by Intelligent.com and conducted by SurveyMonkey June 29-30, 2023. Respondents consist of a national sample of 749509 full-time college students aged 18-25. A total of 509 students who are working and/or doing an internship this summer completed the full survey.

 

Respondents for this survey were selected from the nearly 3 million people who take surveys on the SurveyMonkey platform each day. Learn more about SurveyMonkey’s methodology or contact pr@intelligent.com for more information

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From college drop-out to owning multiple seven-figure businesses: serial entrepreneur weighs in

Jordan Lintz has an extraordinary journey of dropping out of college to owning three seven-figure businesses at 26, and this is why it is important to question traditional life paths.

 

Lintz stepped out of his economics class with an idea. From dropping out of college in his second year to owning three highly successful companies: HighKey Holdings Inc., which includes HighKey Technology Inc., HighKey Agency Inc., and HighKey Clout Inc., Jordan has demonstrated his exceptional entrepreneurial prowess.

His journey began three years ago with establishing HighKey Technology, an e-commerce brand specializing in consumer electronics. Within its second year of operation, HighKey Technology surpassed seven figures in revenue, paving the way for the launch of his social media marketing agency, HighKey Agency.

 

Jordan’s expertise in networking and sales has led to the establishment of his third company, HighKey Clout. Within just six months, HighKey Clout reached seven figures in revenue, capitalizing on an identified market gap and seizing the opportunity to work with celebrities like Lil Yachty, Bhad Bhabie, Trippie Redd, Rich The Kid, and Snoop Dog.

 

With his firsthand experience and deep understanding of the entrepreneur landscape, Jordan and his 23-year-old brother and partner Luke Lintz are well-positioned to discuss the significance of alternative life paths and deconstruct the myth that college is the end-all guarantee to success.

 

Jordan is available for immediate interviews to discuss the following:

 

  • Why young people should consider alternatives to College

  • How many societal expectations keep you from achieving your full potential

  • The long-term vision required for entrepreneurial success

 

His experiences establishing and scaling multiple businesses from the ground up and his extensive network of high-level clients and celebrity collaborations further enrich his insights.

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‘The Price We Pay:’ Teenager’s story underscores systemic impact of racial prejudice

CHICAGO, Ill. — Author Nikki T. Anthony invites readers into the world and mind of a modern-day Black teenager in her new book, The Price We Pay — the title a nod to the widespread impact of racial prejudice in communities, businesses, schools, families and even churches.

 

The Price We Pay isn’t just a book. It’s a movement to get hard conversations started,” Anthony said. “When difficult conversations become productive, they improve relationships.”

 

The story centers on Zenetta Henchman, a teenage girl with a rebellious streak who is navigating strained relationships with her parents, difficult interactions with her teachers, and complicated feelings about her faith. In the backdrop is a community facing a growing racial divide due to unresolved and unaddressed past injustices.

 

All of this compounds to give Zenetta a “one life to live and a nothing else to lose” attitude. She speaks more than she listens and refuses to take orders quietly. But when she witnesses a fatal incident that rocks and divides her community, Zenetta falls silent, and she and those closest to her suffer the consequences of her inaction.

 

What follows are a string of deliberate attacks against Zenetta and the people she cares about, especially Tootsie, the free-spirited, colorful personality that paints a different picture of the world in Zenetta’s eyes. Tribal tensions flare, sparking an all-out explosion after Zenetta’s father, the only Black officer on the force, chooses the wrong side of the law when the community, but more importantly when Zenetta, needs him most. It’s not long after her father’s betrayal that Zenetta discovers there is always a price to be paid when those who could speak up choose to remain silent.

 

The Price We Pay weaves real-world issues surrounding racial prejudice with the emotional drama, trauma and tension that conflicts — and often torments — Zenetta, giving rise to a story that Anthony hopes will leave readers asking themselves what price they are willing to pay for silence … or for speaking up.

 

“When people can’t talk to one another, they talk about each other. That’s when misunderstandings grow as trust diminishes and suspicions increase,” Anthony added.

 

“We want to open the door to mature discussion by allowing people from all walks of life to use The Price We Pay as a starting point for healthy conversations around racial issues that can produce real change.”

 

Advance Praise for The Price We Pay
“The To Kill a Mockingbird of the 21st Century — but from a Black perspective.”
—    Ned Barnett, CEO of Barnett Marketing Communications

 

“I haven’t read a book that intertwined history, fact, and fiction so prolifically since BeBe Moore Campbell’s What You Owe Me, or a main character so young but beyond her years in enthralling experiences since Sister Souljah’s The Coldest Winter Ever.”
—     National Bestselling Author E. N. Joy

 

“This book not only told a personal story, but it also told a realistic one that we as African Americans are living through today.”
—     BETA Reviewer

 

About the Author
Nikki T. Anthony is a multi-faceted author and serial entrepreneur who transformed from corporate technical writer, to highly sought after ghostwriter, literary consultant and content developer. Her writings are best known for epic plot twists, enthralling language and richly detailed African American characters.

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Don’t be an easy target: ‘Armed & Female II’ empowers women to protect themselves

NEW YORK CITY — Self-defense and firearms expert Paxton Quigley paved the way for the women’s gun movement decades ago and continues to advocate for responsible gun ownership, particularly in light of today’s shifting social landscape.

 

Every month, 70 women on average are shot and killed by an intimate partner, according to the latest figures from the Centers for Disease Control (CDC).

 

“If you find yourself in a potentially violent situation,” Quigley said, “you should understand that in almost every case you will be the only person you can truly depend on to protect yourself. You cannot count on the police, unless they happen to be nearby, and bystanders most likely won’t be able to help you.

 

“There are more women living alone and more single mothers than ever, and more women are realizing that they have to learn to take responsibility for their own safety, as well as that of their loved ones,” Quigley said.

 

“And in a country with more guns than people, owning a firearm for self-defense has become a necessity for many women.”

 

But with the right to own a gun comes extraordinary responsibility and accountability, and Quigley wants to help new and existing gun owners realize their potentially lethal as well as non-lethal options.

 

Quigley’s latest book, Armed & Female II: Never an Easy Target (available in paperback and Kindle versions from Amazon.com), aims to help guide readers through the process of making the initial decision to purchase a firearm, choosing the right one, finding the right path for learning how to shoot and care for the gun, and most important, keeping children safe in a home from firearms.

 

Federal background checks for gun purchases hit an all-time high of 21 million in 2020 (according to the National Shooting Sports Foundation). Nearly half (48%) of the new, first-time gun buyers were women, and of these female buyers, 21% were Black (according to the 2021 National Firearms Survey), none of which surprises Quigley.

 

“The pandemic caused many changes in American society, not the least of which was making people, especially women, feel vulnerable,” she said.

 

“The increase in women choosing to arm themselves, especially those who have suffered intimate partner violence or race related threats, has resulted in more choices and diversity in shooting clubs and firearms instruction. There are liberal gun clubs, gay gun clubs, African American and Latinx gun clubs, and so many excellent women shooting instructors, three of which I profile in my book.”

 

With plenty of helpful photos and diagrams, Armed & Female II also includes compelling true stories about women who have survived life-threatening situations; everything readers need to know about handguns and non-lethal self-defense, including non-lethal strategies for personal safety at home and while traveling; and expert advice from some of the country’s most respected firearms safety instructors.

 

“Though written for women, this book is also excellent for men who are new to firearms or want to learn as much as they can as quickly as they can,” Quigley added.

 

“Because when it comes to self-defense, what you don’t know canhurt you.”

 

About the Author

Paxton Quigley is the author of the bestselling women’s gun self-defense series: Armed & Female (hardcover, E.P. Dutton; paperbacks, St. Martin’s Press); Not an Easy Target (Fireside); Staying Alive: Armed & Female in an Unsafe World (Merril Press); and Armed & Female: Taking Control (Merril Press). She has taught personal protection strategies to more than 7,000 women in the U.S. and abroad.

 

No stranger to the media, Paxton has appeared on more than 300 TV and radio shows, including Oprah, 60 Minutes, The Today Show, Good Morning America and NBC Nightly News. She was briefly a bodyguard for Yoko Ono and other high-profile women, and taught self-defense to numerous celebrities, including actresses Laura Dern, Diane Ladd, Geena Davis and Judith Light.

 

For more information, visit www.paxtonquigley.com, or follow the author on Instagram at @Armed_and_female and on Facebook, Armed & Female II: Never An Easy Target.

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Shepherding American children to maturity: Sometimes less is more, expert reveals

BROOKLYN, N.Y. — Dr. Cornelius N. Grove, an authority on children’s learning and parents’ parenting across cultures, takes readers on a journey of discovery through premodern villages and camps on five continents.

 

Revealed is how children in traditional societies gain practical knowledge and life skills — and grow into contributing members of their families and communities — with far less daily parental involvement (and angst) than most American parents devote to their children. How is this possible?

 

“The more traditional a contemporary society is, the more it resembles the way our ancestors lived,” Dr. Grove said.

 

“It’s possible that we modern folks could gain useful insights about our own parenting styles by re-acquainting ourselves with our ancestors’ styles. My research turned up some stark differences, which got me to stand back and look at American parenting, as it were, from the outside. I identified several practical adjustments that could prove beneficial for both parents and kids.”

 

In his eye-opening new book, How Other Children Learn: What Five Traditional Societies Tell Us about Parenting and Children’s Learning, Dr. Grove shares a wealth of stimulating contrasts between the child-rearing strategies in premodern societies on five continents and those of most middle-class American parents.

 

“What astonished me about parents in traditional societies is how uninvolved they are with their children,” he said, adding, “The paraphernalia, experiences and anxious 24/7/365 commitment we Americans routinely associate with parenting are absent.”

 

Dr. Grove defines traditional societies as those unaffected by industrialization and urbanization and untouched by modern values. They are found in small villages and camps where people engage constantly with their natural surroundings (raising, hunting or gathering their daily food) and have little or no experience of classroom instruction.

 

Anchored in the published research of anthropologists of childhood, How Other Children Learn takes a close look at the following five societies: the Aka hunter-gatherers of Africa, the Quechua of highland Peru, the Navajo of the U.S. Southwest, the village Arabs of the Levant and the Hindu villagers of India. Each society has its own chapter, which overviews that society’s background and context, then probes adults’ mindsets and strategies regarding childhood learning and socialization for adulthood.

 

The book concludes with two summary chapters that draw broadly on anthropologists’ findings about dozens of traditional societies and offer examples from the five societies featured in the book. The first summary chapter reveals how children in traditional societies learn to willingly carry out family responsibilities and suggests how American parents can attain similar outcomes. The second contrasts our middle-class patterns of child-rearing and school-attending with traditional societies’ ways of ensuring that their youngsters have opportunities to learn and develop into mature, responsible adults.

 

“Like their traditional peers, our children have a natural capacity to learn on their own and with other children by freely exploring, imitating adults and engaging in all sorts of activities serendipitously occurring in their community,” Dr. Grove added.

 

“How do our children’s opportunities to freely explore and engage with others compare with those of traditional children? With school, extracurriculars and screen time, ours have very few.”

 

About the Author
After attaining a Master of Arts in Teaching at Johns Hopkins University, Cornelius Grove taught high school history, worked in educational publishing, traveled extensively in Europe and Africa, and completed a doctorate in education (Ed.D.) at Columbia University. He then served for 11 years as director of research for AFS, the student exchange organization, simultaneously holding adjunct teaching posts at Columbia and New School Universities. In 1986, he taught at Beijing Foreign Studies University, after which he co-authored Encountering the Chinese: A Modern Country, An Ancient Culture (3rd Ed., 2010). During the 2000s, Dr. Grove became curious about the belief of many Americans that inborn ability is the main determinant of a child’s academic performance. This led to The Aptitude Myth: How an Ancient Belief Came to Undermine Children’s Learning Today (2013). He then figured out why East Asian students always outperform U.S. students on international comparative tests and wrote two books on his findings. The first addresses differences in parenting: The Drive to Learn: What the East Asian Experience Tells Us about RAISING Students Who Excel (2017). The second explores contrasting approaches to teaching in pre- and primary schools: A Mirror for Americans: What the East Asian Experience Tells Us about TEACHING Students Who Excel (2020).

 

A charter fellow of the International Academy of Intercultural Research, Dr. Grove wrote lengthy entries on “pedagogy across cultures” for two encyclopedias. He retired in 2020 after 31 years as managing partner of Grovewell LLC, a global business consultancy. He and his wife have three sons. For more details, visit www.howotherchildrenlearn.info, or connect with the author at www.LinkedIn.com/in/cngrove-author/.

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Heading toward splitsville? Here’s how to take the high road

GREENWICH, Conn. — Attorney Jeffrey Stephens and psychologist Ronald Raymond help pave the way through legal and emotional aspects of divorce in their new book, The Road to Splitsville: How to Navigate the Road to Divorce without Making Yourself Crazy, Your Children Miserable, or Your Lawyer Wealthy … and Then Discover Your Path to Happiness.

 

Intended for folks seeking a less stressful, more amicable approach to divorce, The Road to Splitsville offers an abundance of practical, impartial and immensely helpful information designed to help keep matters less combative — and therefore less costly.

“Our purpose is to demystify this journey, simplify the expedition, minimize the emotional turmoil and expense, and have you reach the other side of this path without the scars so many suffer unnecessarily on the road to a new life,” the authors write in the book’s first chapter.

Topics covered include:

  • Confronting and understanding the “why” of the divorce
  • Techniques for dealing with the inevitable emotional factors
  • Choosing the legal process best suited for your individual circumstances
  • Selecting an attorney, managing that relationship and limiting the costs
  • What to do if you need help from a therapist and how to choose one
  • Avoiding advice from well-meaning, but dangerous, friends
  • How to deal with adult children of divorce
  • How to deal with young and adolescent children of divorce
  • How to handle the loss of love
  • How to rebuild your life and find happiness

Useful and interactive — with brief questionnaires to help readers see things more objectively — The Road to Splitsvilleis intended to make the journey toward ending a marriage a little less rocky.

“This book is for people who have concluded that divorce is inevitable,” Jeffrey Stephens added. “We hope to minimize the emotional and economic damage and point them toward a path to happiness.”

About the Authors

A native of New York City, Jeffrey Stephens is a successful attorney in private practice, having handled many divorces and family law issues, both in New York and Connecticut. Stephens has lived for more than 30 years in Greenwich, which is where he and his wife, Nancy, raised their two sons, Graham and Trevor. Stephens is the author of the Jordan Sandor thrillers, Targets of Deception, Targets of Opportunity, Targets of Revenge and Rogue Mission, as well as the Anthony Walker murder mystery Crimes and Passion and the Pencraft First Place Award winning novel, Fool’s Errand. His newest novel is the just released thriller The Handler from Post Hill Press.

Dr. Ronald Raymond is a clinical and neuropsychologist who has been practicing for over 50 years. His background includes being a professor and adjunct professor at several universities. He served as the Director of Psychology at one of the nation’s most prestigious psychiatric hospitals, Silver Hill Hospital in New Canaan, and was the developer of Transition, Inc., where he had the opportunity to counsel, in group fashion, over 5,000 prospective corporate transferring families. In private practice, Dr. Raymond has counseled children and adults, including many going through the issues of divorce. He is also the coauthor of Ring of Destiny, Destiny Revealed and The Four Essential Ingredients for Effective Parenting.

For more information, please visit www.theroadtosplitsville.com.